tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568691853079583702.post5765428051679713022..comments2023-06-23T07:36:01.197+00:00Comments on LMNtal Attraction: Too Soon?LMNthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04366164460350285592noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568691853079583702.post-8657457285584936942007-01-11T17:04:00.000+00:002007-01-11T17:04:00.000+00:00Thanks! Looking forward to seeing you around :)Thanks! Looking forward to seeing you around :)Elainehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01248443083022342544noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568691853079583702.post-80079613033171519152007-01-11T13:38:00.000+00:002007-01-11T13:38:00.000+00:00RCR -- Why is this such a tough concept for some p...RCR -- Why is this such a tough concept for some people?<br /><br />Carrie M -- Guys do it too sometimes. It's all about avoiding it whenever you can.<br /><br />Ryane -- Glad it worked for ya.<br /><br />DCWeddingPhotog -- Lots of girls work that way. Actions speak louder.<br /><br />Trail Girl -- Glad you like it here. Get comfy and stay awhile. I checked out your blog and you're totally LMNthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04366164460350285592noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568691853079583702.post-38202713600232052962007-01-11T02:59:00.000+00:002007-01-11T02:59:00.000+00:00Lmnt and i-66 say some good things, but I have to ...Lmnt and i-66 say some good things, but I have to agree with Kathryn wholeheartedly. "Sex and no call" is not nearly as awful as the "sex before we develop true intimacy" thing that can drag out seemingly forever... At least the former the girl can just think the guy was an asshole. The latter, there the guy keeps it going solely because he likes the sex, and the girl keeps wondering why he's soAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568691853079583702.post-76247054024234283992007-01-11T02:56:00.000+00:002007-01-11T02:56:00.000+00:00I wish this blog had been around years ago! Having...I wish this blog had been around years ago! Having a guy's point of vue on this kind of thing would totally have saved me weeks of overanalysing every detail. I have slowly trained myself to analyse less. But its soooo hard not to. I will try to be like water and just go with the flow next time the opportunity presents itself...;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568691853079583702.post-91762426590294594682007-01-11T00:13:00.000+00:002007-01-11T00:13:00.000+00:00You don't know me - I'm just exploring some new (t...You don't know me - I'm just exploring some new (to me) D.C. blogs. I just had to comment on this in particular:<br /><br /><i>It's easier to say "I screwed up and slept with him too soon" than "he didn't really like me," because it's a rejection of your actions and not of you as a person.</i><br /><br />It's rare that someone says something logical and yet emotionally intuitive regarding Elainehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01248443083022342544noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568691853079583702.post-38071269682382844652007-01-10T23:30:00.000+00:002007-01-10T23:30:00.000+00:00As a female, I think I am wired to be an over-thin...As a female, I think I am wired to be an over-thinker. I put way too much thought into everything, especially guys. <br /><br />When a guy says he likes you, he probably likes you. If a girl says she likes you, she may be too embarassed to say she's just not that into you. I'm passive aggressive like that... emphasis on the aggressive ;-)Mary Kate + Joe Battleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05520858426218220299noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568691853079583702.post-14846569659171163492007-01-10T23:11:00.000+00:002007-01-10T23:11:00.000+00:00LMNT and I-66: Yes, I was clicking 'Go to Auction'...LMNT and I-66: Yes, I was clicking 'Go to Auction' and it must have been my work computer b/c I had no trouble viewing the pics at home. Thanks for the suggestions!Ryanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06535463704571035144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568691853079583702.post-20361843713859386422007-01-10T21:29:00.000+00:002007-01-10T21:29:00.000+00:00i can't speak for my entire sex, but i do know tha...i can't speak for my entire sex, but i do know that for me and for several of my friends - we just can't dumb it down that much for some reason. it's wired into us to overthink certain things sometimes. i'm not saying this is a wonderful thing, i'm just sayin'.Carrie Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05798918478235074266noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568691853079583702.post-62727931257027458072007-01-10T21:17:00.000+00:002007-01-10T21:17:00.000+00:00I concur.
I will concede that there may have be...I concur. <br /><br />I will concede that there may have been an easy/slutty factor when we were in high school, but as an adult I don't really care. If a guy sleeps with you and then doesn't call, he's not not calling because you put out too early. He just didn't want this to go anywhere in the first place. Men are can be completely fine with sleeping with girls they are totally not into. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568691853079583702.post-17303728273398272862007-01-10T21:16:00.000+00:002007-01-10T21:16:00.000+00:00Carrie M -- Glad you like what I have to say.
Rya...Carrie M -- Glad you like what I have to say.<br /><br />Ryane -- Like I-66 said, click the "go to auction" link.<br /><br />I-66 -- Isn't it interesting how some things that seem so obvious to us aren't to the opposite sex?<br /><br />Kathryn -- Good points. I can't really say that I'm either pro- or anti-waiting. I see good arguments on both sides. Like I said, it's really about that LMNthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04366164460350285592noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568691853079583702.post-90286671624442345572007-01-10T20:29:00.000+00:002007-01-10T20:29:00.000+00:00I agree. If he's into you, he calls.
However, I ...I agree. If he's into you, he calls. <br /><br />However, I will say that a relationship with no potential is often more likely to continue past its natural length when you jump right to sex because of great chemistry. If you wait until you feel sure of the other person, you either get to move on without the messy additional entanglement of sex, or you have fantastic sex with someone you actuallyKathryn Is So Overhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07592296869425454934noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568691853079583702.post-31256529291392269452007-01-10T19:40:00.000+00:002007-01-10T19:40:00.000+00:00I've always considered the "If I like her, I'll ca...I've always considered the "If I like her, I'll call her" premise to be fairly elementary, but I guess it doesn't necessarily translate to women because they're rarely in the "chaser" position and are normally the "chasee" -- is that even a word? <br /><br />And I've been the bedroom teacher before, and it was such a bad experience that I've sworn off doing it ever again. Granted, I guess it I-66https://www.blogger.com/profile/12929341629393348737noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568691853079583702.post-85658062442335502822007-01-10T19:05:00.000+00:002007-01-10T19:05:00.000+00:00LMNTL...I agree w/Carrie. Good post.
And on a com...LMNTL...I agree w/Carrie. Good post.<br /><br />And on a completely different note...I must be doing something wrong b/c whenever I click on the link for the Bachelor auction--I don't see any photos. Are the photos posted already?Ryanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06535463704571035144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568691853079583702.post-50470130336701888802007-01-10T18:20:00.000+00:002007-01-10T18:20:00.000+00:00you're like my muse. i started to leave a comment,...you're like my muse. i started to leave a comment, then i pulled it and turned it into my post for the day. <br /><br />good stuff to know, LMNT. i want to see what the other men have to say as well.Carrie Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05798918478235074266noreply@blogger.com